Monday, June 21, 2010

Organizational Communication & Improving Interpersonal Relationships

     Hello people, I'm so sorry for the lateness in updating my blog. Been busy with the IELTS exam and on top of that fell sick; GASTRIC + FEVER to the max is such a KILLER! Hope none of you fell sick like I did. Let's just cut it short and I shall begin with the topic that I should write on.

Organizational Communication

   As we heard the story from Ms. Diana earlier about how her experiences working in bank affects her attitude with her cliques and her bosses, I would like to share with you some of the stories that happen in a company back in UK. To starts off, first I shall give the basic info so that you can get the idea what the company is like. 

"LGMK" company is a well-known advertising company in UK and it has many top clients. For most of the big advertising company, of course it works within the Transformational Model as they communicate across the world to expand their market. This can be seen from the video conference that they had each month among the top board directors to discuss about their company. Each unit plays different role in carrying the research upon consumer as well as gaining the latest update in different region for them to come out with the best advertisement. 

However, like we discuss in the class earlier each organization can carry more than one traits. I believe in most of the organization these days, we try to apply all traits in order to achieve the best result. From my reading, "LGMK" has organized a Team-Building Weekend for the Creative Department.They had  2days off in the suburb; what the boss thought it would be the best way for all of them to get along and know each other better went the opposite. The places were great, but the only problem that seems to annoy the workers is that they does not think that the game they played such as  "Get-To-Know-U" and "ZIP ZAP BOING!" will do any good for their department.  The boss of the Creative Department, Josh thought that by keeping the workers happy and emotional in check would boost up the creativity in them. Sometimes, the "traditional" way works best. In the end, they all had a night out at the bar having their drinking session. 

The incident above can be applied to the Human Relations Model, the boss and the workers can relate easily in the open up drinking session. In fact, they had a great time despite that everyone was a bit pissed at Josh for making them went to the worthless creative camp earlier. Same applied to us, generally we would prefer to have dinner or go over for "teh tarik" to have a catch up session within our cliques or bosses. In that way, it helps us to feel free to open up to them without feeling tense or stress.


Improving Interpersonal Relationships

   Four main characters in interpersonal relationships are Hidden, Close, Blind and Open. Personally, I'm a Blind person but I also scored Open and Hidden as my second characters which only 1 mark different than Blind. From this result, we can say that each person has different personalities at given situations. Understanding the person that we work with in the organization certainly will help us to achieve better understanding and goals. 

    Back to the "LGMK" company, I shall describe some of the relationship that occurs in the company. 


Open Vs. Open:  Both Amelie & Duncan are partner for their advertisement project. They have worked together for a very long time and understand each other well. For example, when Amelie is feeling stressed due to lack of ideas for their project, Duncan would go out and brought in some coffee as well as chocolate knowing that Amelie can only think properly when she has caffeine and glucose in her body. On the other hand, if there is any disagreement among them, they would lay it out and discuss upon it to achieve mutual understanding.   


Hidden Vs. Close: Applied between Amelie and her boss, Josh. Amelie seems to be hidden, in other words control her movements or not sharing much whenever Josh is around. She is trying to show some respect and does not feel comfortable when Josh is around. Josh on the other hand was portrayed as a closed person by Amelie because Josh usually doesn't talk much. Normally, Josh would stop by to monitor Amelie and Duncan in the meeting room and only says a few words to keep them going. 


Blind Vs. Open:  Amelie's perspective towards Josh changed, after the incident happen at the Wing Manor Inn. Amelie's look up at Josh, the way he respond and take care of his employees in professional way. Amelie has been blind for all this time for not seeing the true Josh. Amelie certainly respect Josh more and seek for his opinion from time to time. In fact, there's a scene where both of them were working late and Josh offers Amelie for a ride. Amelie felt uncomfortable but accept it anyway. It triggers her how ignorant she was for not knowing where her boss lives. Since then, they both make an effort to open up more to work on their interpersonal relationships.




   Those are some of the example that I found in the book that I read. In real life, it does happen. We often judge people for not being open enough or too close to even share a story. What we don't realized is that these characteristics can change throughout times. Some people may be open to certain people that they trust and might not to the other. What important is that how we manage and cooperate it among us. 


Remember, there's always a WAY to work at for a BETTER understanding in Organizational Communication!
Based from the book: Step on it, Cupid! by Lorelei Mathias
Hope you get the messages that I want to share this time around =)
Next, how well you can listen when I said something...




Toddles,
Azzy

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

When AZzY is CONFUSED!



   Bonjour to Ms. Allison and my fellow classmates. Sorry for taking such a long time to post a blog since I have a chaotic blog. Anyways, I was told by my Mike that we suppose to do an introduction on ourselves for the first blog, which I already did that on my another blog, tumblr. I guess I have to start all over again then. As we already mingle around for few weeks in the class, I'm sure all of you know my name, Azirah Azman also known as Datin Azirah, hahaha.
  
   I just joined SEGi ADP recently in the March intake 2010 since I transferred from Nilai University College(NUC). Back then I used to be the Prom Queen and also known as the Queen of Secretary which is associated with the position that I hold in the Students Representative Council of NUC. The reason why I take communication as my major is because I like to talk and communicate with people.  I always have this "I want to know what you think about this" attitude. Just a curious feeling, but mostly it won't affect me on any decision that I have to make. I'm quite stubborn when it comes to that.


   I grew up in Johor Bahru, went to Sultan Ismail High School where the competition is never seems to fade. Those genius students always get on my nerves, but I like to look at study as a FUN thing. Despite on my girlish appearance I actually like adventure. There are so many things that I want to try in this world, and my goal is to travel to all 14 wonders of the world.

   Anyways, I don't think I could write down everything in one post, so if you have any question feel free to ask or comment. Besides, we will be seeing each other from time to time in the class.

  I will post more as a response to the speech given by Ms.Diana the other day since I came across on something that I read in a novel.

Let the FUN begins!!!
Azzy